A family's shield is an aggregation of its' beliefs, in committed allegiance them. 

Some examples include:

  • faith

  • fatherhood

  • family communion

  • morals

  • values - love, respect, communication, forgiveness, honesty, flexibility...

Awareness is a step towards taking up your shield, but it requires intentionality to actually pick it up... and use it. And, intentionality requires planning.